My daughter is always very sick. Or she was. But not really. She would just say so to get us to send her money for doctors back in the day before we put our foot down. Then we couldnt get her for two weeks until she wanted more money. When I would ask if she was feeling better she would act clueless at first before recovering and stammering that she is fine now. We think she just lied about being sick as back then we sent our checks directly to her (stupid us) before we started only sending checks directly to the doctor. We got less requests of course. In fact just one. Not saying your son is doing what Kay did, but its worth considering. We owe them love, nothing else. I think our kids know we love them no matter how they say we dont. I am not sure my daughter loves us at all though. I really cant see evidence of love from her. Hi to all from our cabin. Its been so nice being out of town in such peace. Treat yourself well. Take time off from your kids who wont grow up. A change in location can really help in my opinion.