It all fell apart...

ksm

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I agree Copa...I can't make her do anything. Just St standing firm on my boundaries. And I am sure they will evolve as things change...or don't change...

I will keep contact with her, as she has not been rude to me. I will help get her to appointments. I will advocate for her...as in letting her know what community resources are available, allow her to eat or come to our home, as long as boyfriend is not with her. I will not give money to her. or I will not have any contact with her if boyfriend is with her.

I have asked her not to send me texts, complaining of being hungry, in pain etc. because there is a way she can change that. To tell me that... I told her it will do her no good to continue down that path. Not budging.

It's only been a couple days...and she hasn't continued the texts.

I told her I am turning off my phone at night. If she has a true emergency, call 911 and then call the house phone.

I hate this. Later, the boundaries will probably get tougher. I want her to know I love her, there are options, but she can't manipulate us.

Ksm
 
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