Thank you for all the support. We have our plan for the next 5 weeks. Mostly it consists of not being home when Kanga is home. The littles and I will be spending weekends back at my mom's. The stress level that Tigger is under is unreal. He keeps trying to "make it better" by saying things like "it's okay, I don't have to be a real part of this family, then she won't want to hurt me." It makes me so sad.