With the limited freedoms in difficult children situation - he is home a lot and very frustrated. He wants his car back - wants to go do things and furious when he is not allowed. Of course, it mostly gets directed toward me. I HATE it and its not fair. HE put himself in this situation. He had a ton of freedoms when we were under the impression that he was doing well - HE has lost his privileges - but he blames me. He said po and I r trying to control him - doesn't care if he goes to detention "it will only be for a month"....he doesn't feel he should be working hard at anything right now - just everyone should get off his back. I do let him use my car - with time limits and not when I need it - that isn't good enough for him. I'm so frustrated by his lack of understanding of his situation and his lack of understanding for my situation too for that matter.