Coralchet1
Member
Hello, thank you for letting me post and for yourself having the time to read this.
I'm here because of my son. He's 16 and has conduct disorder to which started with ADD, that turned into ODD and now the current conduct diagnoses. Last time we seen the Doctor he said by the time he's 18 he'll be diagnosed bipolar disorder. Doctor also stated there is nothing he can do for son as he refuses any form of help. That day crumbled me! Anyway, sons also into drugs...I'm 100% sure it's pot and maybe 75% sure other drugs as well, he drinks occasionally as well.
He becomes violent with destroying property at home and tells me to Fck off more often than I like...he steals, lies, use to threaten me with knives and how he'd kill me in my sleep- haven't heard that for quite awhile now! He has also had times of holding his head between his hands all the while passing back and forth telling something to shut up...no idea who he's telling that too!
by the way, I'm a single parent and have been for 16 yrs. I also have 2 adult children all three kids are from my marriage and father gave them up to me in divorce...my other two are fine mentally they were easy to raise..their younger brother ran before walking, or crawling...he's been difficult since day one..
I've had my son removed and placed into foster care, a stat unit for troubled kids, for some respite. I've had him the hospital. I've had him charged at 13 and he spent the night in jail. Police have been called many times as I needed help. Police informed him at 15 that they want me ( mom) to place restraining order on him to keep him away from me. He turned 16 a few months back and still up to his ...
Well I kicked him out today....I said, get out and don't come back! I also informed him that he was to contact someone either his sister, brother, or the father to say where he was..if he didn't I'd be informing the police and they would find him however, he wasn't to come back here....as far as I know, he didn't call anyone...I'll be calling police tomorrow as it will be 24 hours..
Honestly, I don't think I have energy anymore...I also suffer from PTSD and depression because of what has happened over the years. I often wonder and ask god why this has happened. I often hear god doesn't give us anything we can't handle, Really? I seriously hate hearing that. I believe people who say that --Have No Idea--
Anyhow, that pretty much sums up 16 yrs..
Thank you for reading xx
I'm here because of my son. He's 16 and has conduct disorder to which started with ADD, that turned into ODD and now the current conduct diagnoses. Last time we seen the Doctor he said by the time he's 18 he'll be diagnosed bipolar disorder. Doctor also stated there is nothing he can do for son as he refuses any form of help. That day crumbled me! Anyway, sons also into drugs...I'm 100% sure it's pot and maybe 75% sure other drugs as well, he drinks occasionally as well.
He becomes violent with destroying property at home and tells me to Fck off more often than I like...he steals, lies, use to threaten me with knives and how he'd kill me in my sleep- haven't heard that for quite awhile now! He has also had times of holding his head between his hands all the while passing back and forth telling something to shut up...no idea who he's telling that too!
by the way, I'm a single parent and have been for 16 yrs. I also have 2 adult children all three kids are from my marriage and father gave them up to me in divorce...my other two are fine mentally they were easy to raise..their younger brother ran before walking, or crawling...he's been difficult since day one..
I've had my son removed and placed into foster care, a stat unit for troubled kids, for some respite. I've had him the hospital. I've had him charged at 13 and he spent the night in jail. Police have been called many times as I needed help. Police informed him at 15 that they want me ( mom) to place restraining order on him to keep him away from me. He turned 16 a few months back and still up to his ...
Well I kicked him out today....I said, get out and don't come back! I also informed him that he was to contact someone either his sister, brother, or the father to say where he was..if he didn't I'd be informing the police and they would find him however, he wasn't to come back here....as far as I know, he didn't call anyone...I'll be calling police tomorrow as it will be 24 hours..
Honestly, I don't think I have energy anymore...I also suffer from PTSD and depression because of what has happened over the years. I often wonder and ask god why this has happened. I often hear god doesn't give us anything we can't handle, Really? I seriously hate hearing that. I believe people who say that --Have No Idea--
Anyhow, that pretty much sums up 16 yrs..
Thank you for reading xx