I didn't change my post title........... lol Someone else must've edited it for me.
Janet the house is in my name, I have to be executor to have husband's name removed evidently from the title. My mom had a cow over it because, yes, this house was bought with my accident settlement. But I put husband on the title in case something happened to me. Which is actually how we expected it to play out.
Lawyer didn't see any kids getting funds as an issue, so I'm guessing it works that wife inherits first over kids, which in most states is how it works when there is no beneficiary and both names aren't on an acct. Even the bank didn't see it as an issue. They just need something that says I'm estate executor. Of course even lawyer didn't know when I spoke to her how much is sitting in that acct, either. I was taught from a young age to keep my trap shut and never volunteer anything.
This is so the acct can be transferred over into my name. What the bank doesn't know is I will be withdrawing it the moment that is done. I don't like that bank. I don't do terminal hold and phone hang ups. I'll be putting it into the bank I trust with staff I know well and who don't treat their customers that way.
We now have a new problem. Seems husband didn't file for Travis on the last 3 yrs city taxes. Only one of those years he worked, and only a few months of that year. He just received a subpoena from the court. He has to have his W2 forms for those 3 yrs, which is going to be interesting as 2 of them he was unemployed. And we have no clue where they are.......we found much of husband's tax disaster, I dunno if Travis' are in there or not, and he has to have these by nov 15th.
OMG. The boy just spent a rather largish sum of his college loan refund paying off the debt from husband not paying his school taxes for lord knows how many years. I wonder if the lawyer will hep me with our taxes, now I'm scared they're far more messed up than we thought..........
Anyone know how to get a copy of a lost W2 form from say 2008??