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call 911........call 911
Thanks EVERYONE - your input and advice is (as always) invaluable.
Genny - if Dude needs to *(** or get off the pot? Can I write that on TP - included in Memoirs from the Krappa?
I pray that if I keep my nose on my face and not in his business he'll begin to comprehend that MOMMA is NOT going to fix stuff.
Like I said - my only concern is his level of depression - I called the fosters and spoke with the foster mom and she said that he's ALWAYS 'ill", "irritable", and a "growley bear", but lately it's been worse (if I could believe that). Thinking to myself - DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA WHY HE LIVES AT YOUR HOME? (slap forhead)
But she was sincere about his depression and said they are watching him. She thinks he needs on medications. So maybe they'll talk him into it.
I wish - I really wish there was a way, a credit card sized something we as parents could hold out in front of our children and tell when we should step in because they ARE so mentally defunct, and when they are JUST being lazy and figure if they lay down, we will worry, rush in, and fix it.
I'm still muddling through the SSI forms - ARGH who designed this ....oh wait THE GOVERNMENT???? YEAh......thanks for that headache.
Maybe if he gets SSI - this will aleviate some stress for us all.

Genny - if Dude needs to *(** or get off the pot? Can I write that on TP - included in Memoirs from the Krappa?
I pray that if I keep my nose on my face and not in his business he'll begin to comprehend that MOMMA is NOT going to fix stuff.
Like I said - my only concern is his level of depression - I called the fosters and spoke with the foster mom and she said that he's ALWAYS 'ill", "irritable", and a "growley bear", but lately it's been worse (if I could believe that). Thinking to myself - DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA WHY HE LIVES AT YOUR HOME? (slap forhead)
But she was sincere about his depression and said they are watching him. She thinks he needs on medications. So maybe they'll talk him into it.
I wish - I really wish there was a way, a credit card sized something we as parents could hold out in front of our children and tell when we should step in because they ARE so mentally defunct, and when they are JUST being lazy and figure if they lay down, we will worry, rush in, and fix it.
I'm still muddling through the SSI forms - ARGH who designed this ....oh wait THE GOVERNMENT???? YEAh......thanks for that headache.
Maybe if he gets SSI - this will aleviate some stress for us all.
