BusynMember1
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My daughter Kay has smoked pot often since age 14. Her husband Lee started at 13. I am doing research on pot, which is including those who smoke.pot like her and as much, and those who quit pot. There is a big forum where pot smokers talk about their experiences smoking pot and I read every post. Took me a long time to finish.
What I read is scary. Pot is a psychedelic that according to a bunch of users, causes eating issues, paranoia is common, bad anxiety, poor short term memory even in young people, and other bad problems. Some say they need pot. Some say they are addicted. Some quit and of those who quit most feel newly clearheaded. Not one had a negative to say about quitting.
Some quit then started again, sometimes less often. I was shocked. This forum was 420 friendly. Most had not smoked daily for as many years as Kay. Or Lee. They say it gets worse. People at 9 years were saying enough was enough. Some had quit after 3 years due to how it was affecting their brains.
Kay and Lee believe pot is a healthy plant and good for even my grandson and they smoke around him and he inhales the smoke. He has to.
I know there is nothing I can do. But Kay and Lee are getting worse. Lee has had six jobs and my daughter has had none for years. They are always hard up for money.
Kay will never be able to work. Lee and Kay think vaccines kill kids or give them autism so the grandson will have to be homeschooled. His state is strict about letting unvaccinated children into schools. So Kay, who already has no out of home life, will continue to be home most days with a rather difficult child. I love him, bit he has issues. And Kay has no teaching experience, but you don't need any to homeschool in her state. My poor little boy.
Back to the pot and Kay and Lee, they also use Kratom. I cant help but think these are contributors to Kay and Lee's behavior. Too much pot for way too long. Lee is lazy and unmotivated. We have given them money before, but I think my husband is done with that so we pray Lee doesnt quit his job. Often he gets mad and wuits. He has a good job now, but his temper is awful.
I know there is nothing her father or I can say to make either at least smoke pot away from my grandson. I just wanted to put out there how many years of daily pot not be so harmless.
I smoked pot in my late teens, but not all the time and not after I started working. I didn't think it was a bad drug when Kay first used it in place of harder drugs. It hadn't harmed me, a casual, weekend smoker.
I changed my mind. And Kratom, just heard of it and don't know what that may cause. Kay uses or used it, another one of her natural plant supplements that is harmless.
If you have a young teen smoking pot please try to discourage the use, if you can.
Any thoughts welcome. I am so disheartened and worn out.
What I read is scary. Pot is a psychedelic that according to a bunch of users, causes eating issues, paranoia is common, bad anxiety, poor short term memory even in young people, and other bad problems. Some say they need pot. Some say they are addicted. Some quit and of those who quit most feel newly clearheaded. Not one had a negative to say about quitting.
Some quit then started again, sometimes less often. I was shocked. This forum was 420 friendly. Most had not smoked daily for as many years as Kay. Or Lee. They say it gets worse. People at 9 years were saying enough was enough. Some had quit after 3 years due to how it was affecting their brains.
Kay and Lee believe pot is a healthy plant and good for even my grandson and they smoke around him and he inhales the smoke. He has to.
I know there is nothing I can do. But Kay and Lee are getting worse. Lee has had six jobs and my daughter has had none for years. They are always hard up for money.
Kay will never be able to work. Lee and Kay think vaccines kill kids or give them autism so the grandson will have to be homeschooled. His state is strict about letting unvaccinated children into schools. So Kay, who already has no out of home life, will continue to be home most days with a rather difficult child. I love him, bit he has issues. And Kay has no teaching experience, but you don't need any to homeschool in her state. My poor little boy.
Back to the pot and Kay and Lee, they also use Kratom. I cant help but think these are contributors to Kay and Lee's behavior. Too much pot for way too long. Lee is lazy and unmotivated. We have given them money before, but I think my husband is done with that so we pray Lee doesnt quit his job. Often he gets mad and wuits. He has a good job now, but his temper is awful.
I know there is nothing her father or I can say to make either at least smoke pot away from my grandson. I just wanted to put out there how many years of daily pot not be so harmless.
I smoked pot in my late teens, but not all the time and not after I started working. I didn't think it was a bad drug when Kay first used it in place of harder drugs. It hadn't harmed me, a casual, weekend smoker.
I changed my mind. And Kratom, just heard of it and don't know what that may cause. Kay uses or used it, another one of her natural plant supplements that is harmless.
If you have a young teen smoking pot please try to discourage the use, if you can.
Any thoughts welcome. I am so disheartened and worn out.
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