Pregnant daughter update, dealing with family judgement

[ksm]

Wow! So difficult and scary! It's bad enough when it's an adult that is involved, but so much worse when a baby is too.

I hope you can find some small pebble of peace and calmness to hold on to.

Ksm

 

[SeekinghopeNZ]

Thank you. I am feeling strangely calm … or I’m completely numb not 100% sure. I’ve been reminded that when I’m powerless the One who created her is not. I’m not sure what our nexts steps can be but I will be going through the motions of trying to regulate the stress.

 

[katya02]

I am so, so sorry to hear this. What a nightmare, and no good options at hand. The next step really is on your daughter, who has now destroyed her living situation in impulsive rage. I have no suggestions that you haven’t already thought over. But please don’t take your daughter’s accusations to heart. No one is destroying her life but herself. It’s horrible to hear her words but they aren’t true. And if you raced to the rescue as your sister has done in the past, you would not be able to accomplish anything positive because of your daughter’s impaired thinking and perceptions. It is so hard to accept this, and while coping with this you also face judgmental words and attitudes from your sister. I am so very sorry. Sending love, hugs, and prayers for you and your family.

 

[SeekinghopeNZ]

I am so, so sorry to hear this. What a nightmare, and no good options at hand. The next step really is on your daughter, who has now destroyed her living situation in impulsive rage. I have no suggestions that you haven’t already thought over. But please don’t take your daughter’s accusations to heart. No one is destroying her life but herself. It’s horrible to hear her words but they aren’t true. And if you raced to the rescue as your sister has done in the past, you would not be able to accomplish anything positive because of your daughter’s impaired thinking and perceptions. It is so hard to accept this, and while coping with this you also face judgmental words and attitudes from your sister. I am so very sorry. Sending love, hugs, and prayers for you and your family.

Thank you your words are a comfort