klmno
Active Member
difficult child has an IEP for ED and three of his four core academic classes are collaborative. He scores advanced in science and there was every indication that he would really enjoy and take off in this year's life science class. However, he has made 'F' 's since mid-October. It has appeared to me all along that the collaborative teacher has not done a single thing to help him and his regular teacher even called to complain about the IEP. (There is nothing strenuous in there.) This happened in social studies as well, but after I complained back about it being the law to follow the IEP, the social studies situation has improved. English- the regular teacher and collaborative teacher rose to the occassion early on and started following the IEP and he has done better- still not good grades, but motivated and passing. Math is his best subject- it's not a collaborative class but an accellerated class. This teacher went above and beyond, since it's not collaborative, so he's still hanging on in there. the science teacher is apparently scared or ignorant of mood disorders and reports things about difficult child that everyone else in the world (except those scared and un-knowledgable) would ignore.
I became very concerned that difficult child was going to be "triggered" by science teacher's attitude about him and her overly- scrutinizing him when he wasn't doing anything wrong. I demanded that the school change him to a different class- this was after trying to get them to "fix" the problem for 3-4 mos. And, I also emailed them to call me if he becomes hyper or disruptive in her class so I can come and pick him up- I am that convinced that she is going to trigger something and they have never followed the IEP in taking him to a "safe place" to settle down if he is hyppomanic- or disruptive, agitated, or hyper.
The school knows I have requested someone from higher in the sd to get involved- I'm sure they are aware that I have more than enough reason and evidence to take them to due process, and that I'm considering it. The issue at hand, though, is that the school has informed me that I can remove difficult child from this science class but this is the only one available that is collaborative- the others are just regular classes. My first reaction is fine- change his class- the F can't get any lower and no one in this class is helping him. Then, on the other hand, if I sign an IEP to change him to a regular science class, doesn't that mean I give approval to remove accommodations for that class? Wouldn't that be me agreeing that he doesn't need a collaborative science class?
What would you do?
I became very concerned that difficult child was going to be "triggered" by science teacher's attitude about him and her overly- scrutinizing him when he wasn't doing anything wrong. I demanded that the school change him to a different class- this was after trying to get them to "fix" the problem for 3-4 mos. And, I also emailed them to call me if he becomes hyper or disruptive in her class so I can come and pick him up- I am that convinced that she is going to trigger something and they have never followed the IEP in taking him to a "safe place" to settle down if he is hyppomanic- or disruptive, agitated, or hyper.
The school knows I have requested someone from higher in the sd to get involved- I'm sure they are aware that I have more than enough reason and evidence to take them to due process, and that I'm considering it. The issue at hand, though, is that the school has informed me that I can remove difficult child from this science class but this is the only one available that is collaborative- the others are just regular classes. My first reaction is fine- change his class- the F can't get any lower and no one in this class is helping him. Then, on the other hand, if I sign an IEP to change him to a regular science class, doesn't that mean I give approval to remove accommodations for that class? Wouldn't that be me agreeing that he doesn't need a collaborative science class?
What would you do?