What a loving and kind example you gave her LB! No matter our belief systems, I think most people believe the best way to honor what one believes is to be an example of those values. Very nice.....
she actually asked me if I maybe think she must rather take her kid back to the dr.....
Wow! I would have been more blunt than you, but I am so glad that she came back and asked for your opinion. Your fretting actually did some good because you did something about it. Gracefully.