There's another issue I haven't mentioned. I think he may be seriously delusional. For the last year he's been convinced that Chicago PD and the FBI have been tracking him due to an identity theft crime which he may or may not have committed while working at a major bank. He's convinced that he was followed onto the plane in Chicago because a guy on the same plane got off in Charlotte when my son did and then boarded the plane for Orlando. He didn't pick up his suitcase at baggage claim because he was certain the authorities were waiting for him if he did. He had a chance a couple of days later to help a friend move another friend from one house to another outside Orlando in exchange for which the first friend would take him to the airport to pick up his luggage, but he declined because it required him being up by 7 am. Yesterday he told me I need to be home Wednesday because the airline is shipping his luggage to him (at no charge, he says) but someone needs to be here to sign for it. Normally that's not a problem as I'm home pretty much all the time. But I had made plans to do something with a friend for a couple of hours and now I have to cancel or risk not being home when his suitcase arrives. If I'm not here I don't know what happens next, does it go back to the sender, and will they reship it at a later date? All the while I'm thinking this situation could have been avoided had he claimed his luggage upon getting off the plane or taken his friend up on his offer. I know this is not my responsibility, but yet I would feel like a total jerk if I weren't home tomorrow when his suitcase is delivered. He had said that he could make sure to be here during the time I would be gone but A, as someone else on another thread said, I'm reluctant to leave him here alone, even for a short period. And B, assuming he made it to the hospital last night, he's at a facility for the next 72 hours and couldn't be here anyway. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place in deciding which way to go on this. *My plans with my friend are not for anything major and could easily be postponed or rescheduled for another time.