Hello,
I'm new to doing something like this but somehow it warrants me to reach out to whomever that is going through or has gone through what I'm in the beginning of with my child. I am raising my grandson he's age 6 yrs and has begun acting out. I'm not sure where it comes from or what it's intentions are but I rebuke it in the name of Jesus. I feel that my child is demon possessed, he is doing and saying things that he hasn't said before even though it's just now coming out. He's abusive verbally, destructive, defiant, mean towards his sibling. I've had him since he was age 2 weeks.
He has been placed out of one school and into another school with smaller setting. The thing that's really getting under my skin is the words I HATE YOU, I DON'T WANT TO BE HERE, I DON'T LIKE YOU, THIS PLACE IS STUPID. He has not said these words before until June of this year. Yes, there were some new changes like moving, I went into the hospital to have knee surgery which he's been through that before. But I just gain custody of his sibling now 18 months and he doesn't want him here. In a mothers eyes, you would want your child to know his or her sibling no matter what especially at a very young age. I am the only support system they have. When start noticing the behavioral changes I immediately seek medical attention. He has been on several different medication and doesn't seem to be doing it's job. Me personally, doesn't think medication is the route to go since he's been a genie pig of several. I'm at the end of my rope, this is new to me and I don't know what I need to do or can do.
I have looked into several avenues to help him and myself, I've signed him up to see a therapist while he's on medication, I am looking into some support groups so I can know what I'm doing. I'm from the ole school and this is not working for me or him. I have begun to distant myself from him to ignore the words and behavior but it ain't working. He has begun to destroying the house and breaking things as he says because he's angry and I make him mad. WHAT? He' s so disrespectful, I don't want this in my life or in his. I need help before I'm put away from mental breakdown. Any suggestions is greatly helpful.