I have a 14 year old daugther. She has always been somewhat strong willed and her emotions have been very strong (very happy, very mad, etc.) Otherwise, though, she was a generally kind, happy, caring, well liked child. She has long had a diagnosis of adhd. In the past year, she had dramatically changed. She has been involved with the legal system for a violent crime against my husband (her dad), run away many times, stolen from us, been involved in some shady things online, etc. She has taken now to screaming profanities at me when she doesn't get her way. This is upsetting enough as I'm not the type of person who uses this language at all, nor are most of the people in our circle, but we have a 5 year old who looks up to her who has started to imitate her behavior. She has deep hatred for me as her mom, seeming to believe that everything that ever goes wrong is my fault completely. She cannot hear no or that she is wrong about anything without losing it. When she starts screaming at me, what do I do? I have told her to go to her room and cool off. She refuses. I have tried walking away. She follows me, blocks my path or taunts me. I have tried just repeating my directions (go to your room.) calmly while looking at her in the eye. She just escalates or says "make me." She is in counseling twice a week, sees a psychiatrist who has her on mood stabilizers, has been in jail for 12 days, in the behavioral health ward of the hospital, has social workers trying to help us, her dad and I are in counseling regarding how to parent her, but she just keeps escalating and I hate most of all that it's damaging my son's chance at the same stable, happy childhood she had. Help!