A few knotts in my neck

[JayPee]

You ladies are on the ball. I'm sure his inference to working with asbestos and toxic mold is so that at a later time he'll "zing" me with a guilt trip about how he's going to die from having been exposed. I've been down this road before!

BlindSided..he didn't pay off his car (that loan was on me ) What he did was take a loan out against the title and paid that off. For him that is still an accomplishment.

 

[WiseChoices]

Baby steps in the right direction . He paid something off and did something towards taking responsibility for his life .And that is a direct result of JP sticking to her boundaries.

It doesn't matter so much what they say (attempts at manipulation my guilt) as long as we don't take the bait. What matters more are actions. And I see some small movement on his part towards acting on his own behalf.