Bearsmom
New Member
I am back to scream into the void. My husband is enabling again, this time behind my back.
His daughter is being oh so nice. She sends him lists of things she needs, all the while doing nothing but living on a brush infested lot bleeding him dry.
Paying the electric bill, buying her food, car registration, insurance.
The worst is 100$ per week.
She will not go get on public assistance, look for a job, or seek any type of help. She tells him to bring stuff from our home. Towels, blankets, cleaning solution, toiletries. I am sick of it. He took her a whole tub of DVDs, that I have. I took the rest and locked in my trunk.
I am worried he will try to move her in, when our house is built, I have actually been delaying the process, hoping she will go away. I feel guilty for this. I cannot stand the idea of her living with us.
She is a liar, she steals, and she talks about evil things, very dark things. I don't sleep when she has stayed with us.
Why would someone just become a angry nasty derelict, living in near squalor? My husband walks on eggshells to avoid her wrath. I on the other hand tell her straight up what I think. He knows it could get physical with her and I. That is, I believe the only thing keeping her away.
I feel lost...
His daughter is being oh so nice. She sends him lists of things she needs, all the while doing nothing but living on a brush infested lot bleeding him dry.
Paying the electric bill, buying her food, car registration, insurance.
The worst is 100$ per week.
She will not go get on public assistance, look for a job, or seek any type of help. She tells him to bring stuff from our home. Towels, blankets, cleaning solution, toiletries. I am sick of it. He took her a whole tub of DVDs, that I have. I took the rest and locked in my trunk.
I am worried he will try to move her in, when our house is built, I have actually been delaying the process, hoping she will go away. I feel guilty for this. I cannot stand the idea of her living with us.
She is a liar, she steals, and she talks about evil things, very dark things. I don't sleep when she has stayed with us.
Why would someone just become a angry nasty derelict, living in near squalor? My husband walks on eggshells to avoid her wrath. I on the other hand tell her straight up what I think. He knows it could get physical with her and I. That is, I believe the only thing keeping her away.
I feel lost...