Thanks RE. been there done that and over it. For many years, I suffered being with a true blue narcissist. If you looked up narcissism, there would be a picture of his face right next to it. The most important part that is missing in this article, in my opinion, and it's the number one thing we all need to be aware of, is that narcissist need a power supply for the ego to survive. Without this supply, they get very , very desperate. When their ego's are starving, that is when they are their most charming, romantic, lovely or cunning, cruel and dangerous. They need to be the reason you feel whether or good or bad. They need to be in control of your feelings and self worth. It really has nothing to do with criminals or bad behaviors, selfies or social media. My ex husband was a stellar citizen, no criminal history, responsible, no drug abuse. There needs are not for material things. Their soul reason for surviving is to feed off of your feelings like a vampire....because they have no feelings.... and they are envious and jealous of everyone else who can feel. They can only feel things through you and when they have sucked everything out of you, every last drop, the move on to their next fresh target. They can't feel. They need and want to feel but know they will never get it.