toughlovin
Well-Known Member
Hi all,
So we went to the parent support group meeting last night and found out our son has been defiant and disrespectful and is skating on thin ice. If he doesn't clean up his act or if he escalates he will lose his bed!!! Ugh I just don't want to go through this again for the millionth time... and we are leaving the country for a 3 week vacation in 10 days.
I do like this place... they had a talk with him and are going to bring in his PO for a meeting!! If that doesn't scare him into compliance I don't know what will!!
So then we went to see him last night and talked to him. He told us his level had been dropped, we said we knew and where was he at. He actually seemed good in many ways. He said he wanted to stay there. I said ok do you know what you need to do and he said yes. While we were sitting with him his counselor came over and told us that he had just talked to the director and told her that difficult child has really improved and so we could relax a bit, he was not in immediate danger of losing his bed.
The thing is I know if he wants to our difficult child can do what he needs to do... he just has to do it. So here is praying he does it... and we don't get that dreaded country when we are away. We haven't decided what to tell him about our trip, if anything.
TL
So we went to the parent support group meeting last night and found out our son has been defiant and disrespectful and is skating on thin ice. If he doesn't clean up his act or if he escalates he will lose his bed!!! Ugh I just don't want to go through this again for the millionth time... and we are leaving the country for a 3 week vacation in 10 days.
I do like this place... they had a talk with him and are going to bring in his PO for a meeting!! If that doesn't scare him into compliance I don't know what will!!
So then we went to see him last night and talked to him. He told us his level had been dropped, we said we knew and where was he at. He actually seemed good in many ways. He said he wanted to stay there. I said ok do you know what you need to do and he said yes. While we were sitting with him his counselor came over and told us that he had just talked to the director and told her that difficult child has really improved and so we could relax a bit, he was not in immediate danger of losing his bed.
The thing is I know if he wants to our difficult child can do what he needs to do... he just has to do it. So here is praying he does it... and we don't get that dreaded country when we are away. We haven't decided what to tell him about our trip, if anything.
TL