BusynMember
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Nar Anon is online too!
I have a suggestion...find a cognitive behavioral or dialectal behavioral therapist to work with you on being able to handle your anxiety. No offense, but since dealers are dangerous thugs and don't give credit cards or payment plans, your son was using probably enormous amounts of money for fake debts to buy dangerous drugs for his own use. Never ever believe those good guy drug dealers are good hearted white collar guys who give credit. You get if you pay cash. That's why any cash is dangerous to your son, even if he throws a toddler fit. What kind of person does this to his own parents? This is HIS problem.
Please, please get serious help learning to handle the discomfort your anxiety gives you. I have severe anxiety and through the years I have learned how to feel the anxiety and work through it. It is possible. But it's time you wrap yourself in love because we all deserve our own love. Just like you, I once put EVERYONE before me. I still tend to put my kids and hub first, but I am healthy enough today to only do it to those who show me respect and love. You matter. Invest in yourself.
Hugs and more hugs.
I have a suggestion...find a cognitive behavioral or dialectal behavioral therapist to work with you on being able to handle your anxiety. No offense, but since dealers are dangerous thugs and don't give credit cards or payment plans, your son was using probably enormous amounts of money for fake debts to buy dangerous drugs for his own use. Never ever believe those good guy drug dealers are good hearted white collar guys who give credit. You get if you pay cash. That's why any cash is dangerous to your son, even if he throws a toddler fit. What kind of person does this to his own parents? This is HIS problem.
Please, please get serious help learning to handle the discomfort your anxiety gives you. I have severe anxiety and through the years I have learned how to feel the anxiety and work through it. It is possible. But it's time you wrap yourself in love because we all deserve our own love. Just like you, I once put EVERYONE before me. I still tend to put my kids and hub first, but I am healthy enough today to only do it to those who show me respect and love. You matter. Invest in yourself.
Hugs and more hugs.
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