Of course this disgusting discussion came to a 'head' (pun intended) when we brought it up with the therapist. Imagine the eye rolling that night when "will flush toilet" was added to the ACCOMPLISHABLE CHORE list.
O yeah, I can picture that on a Behavior Chart:
difficult child will flush toilet 6 out of 7 times.
In our house? It says: difficult child will change underwear...