I had to come back and give you guys an UPDATE:
So we went to the Child Study Meeting on Thursday (2hrs!!). I COULD NOT BE ANYMORE HAPPIER!!!!! I did bring my father and a Special Education Advocate with me. Im not sure if that helped or not but it sure didnt hurt anything! The school is now going to do a FULL evaluation to include hear,edu, psychiatric, speech/lang, vision, observation, sociocultural, and Occupational Therapist (OT). They said my sons Needs are Sensory, Social Skills, Pragmatic language, Higher level expressive and Receptive language, Emotional regulation and Mental flexibility. His Strengths: creative & artistic, responds well to alt ways of learning, computer skills/typing, musical and ability to self soothe. The lady in charge of the meeting (School Social Worker)kept trying to point the finger at me! Saying in the past that Ms. Rash has NOT been trying to work with us! Etc. etc..IT freakin ****** me off!!!! Saying that I NEVER signed the medical release form to share info w them..etc..Over the yrs my son has been to a Community Services Health Agency,(they recommend him to go to a psychiatric hospital) Pysch ward/Mental hospital for 2 week inpatient stay, (after 2 wk stay they gave NO diagnosis) a Psychiatrist (just gets medications from him, ONLY diagnosis him w ADHD) a psychologist (she recommended MORE Formal testing) and now recently The Center for Autism Spectrum Disorders Neuropsychological evaluation from Childrens National Medical Center! (Their report is a 15 page diagnosis w ADHD, sensory processing disorder (SPD), & Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)!!!!!) FINALLY I had a diagnosis ON PAPER!!! Dont even ask me how much I have spent on all of this over the yrs! Its in the thousands! UGGH! So NOW ARMED w the diagnosis finally I can NOW share with the school something..etc..
What did she want me to share??? I NEVER had anything to SHARE!!!!! And I told her that until NOW! She kept trying to play the blame game. SO I through it back in her face! I said well you know what? It works both ways! THE SCHOOL KNEW in the 3rd grade at school he spelled out in blocks I wish I were dead! (he was upset at school being bullied etc.) Thats when this all started going to see professionals THE SCHOOL KNEW he spent 2 weeks at a psychiatric hospital
.And what did the school do??? They tested him for Hearing, Vision, and Speech! NOT PYSCH or anything else! In addition NOT finding him qual for Special Education services! So you better CHECK YOURSELVES! The whole room was QUIET and they were staring at me Like I was a MAD WOMAN! LOL
I really dont even give a chit anymore! I am NOT playing anymore and I think they know it!
Having the advocate I think helped too.NOW they are expediting a FULL evaluation and I think suppose to do it in 65 days? BUT they are gonna do it ASAP! Next meeting is March 29th! They will discuss then if he qualifies based on the evaluation results for sp ed services! HOWEVER, The School Social Worker was ALREADY talking about him being qualified under Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) for Special Education services and she was discussing IEP!!!!!! I cant believe it! I was SO nervous I would have to fight them for it!!!! Cus well over the yrs I have been to MANY of these meetings with-o an advocate too. Maybe having the new diagnosis and an advocate helped. I dont know
But it seems like they are finally going to implement an IEP! Uggh
Sorry so long!
End of rant...lol