butterfly31972
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My difficult child told me this a.m. that he was going to call the police and tell them to put me in jail and tell them to kill me. I told him that was very inappropriate and that he cannot go around saying that...etc....etc......
He went to school and not 4 hours later a girl yells at him and he says I'm gonna tell my mom to kill you. I believe he feels that it is better to say that he is gonna "hire a hit man" (pardon the pun) than to say he will do it himself.
I am very concerned that he is spouting out things like this.
The thing is... we have been taking the CPR (Child-Parent-Relationship)Training at his school with the play therapy toys and it had an assorted aggressive toy section which included a rubber knife, a sword, handcuffs, police stick, no gun (we refused that- knowing he was over the top with that) and a robber mask. I do this at home but I am taking a 7 week class at school to learn how to do it.Of course, when we started our session, he went to the aggressive toys first and sword and rubber knife fought with me. I was the person leading the session and he used the handcuffs in me which is normal and himself just experimenting. But I wonder of it just got him worked up and made him think this way the next day when he was angry for any reason.
Thoughts? I really feel badly for the girl and when she told the teacher and when the teacher got on to him he cried and showed remorse.
Please tell me what you would do in this situation and how I should handle it. I need to know what to say to difficult child, the teachers, the counselor, and his psychiatrist, if need be. He is out of school today due to voting and this happened yesterday.
He went to school and not 4 hours later a girl yells at him and he says I'm gonna tell my mom to kill you. I believe he feels that it is better to say that he is gonna "hire a hit man" (pardon the pun) than to say he will do it himself.
I am very concerned that he is spouting out things like this.
The thing is... we have been taking the CPR (Child-Parent-Relationship)Training at his school with the play therapy toys and it had an assorted aggressive toy section which included a rubber knife, a sword, handcuffs, police stick, no gun (we refused that- knowing he was over the top with that) and a robber mask. I do this at home but I am taking a 7 week class at school to learn how to do it.Of course, when we started our session, he went to the aggressive toys first and sword and rubber knife fought with me. I was the person leading the session and he used the handcuffs in me which is normal and himself just experimenting. But I wonder of it just got him worked up and made him think this way the next day when he was angry for any reason.
Thoughts? I really feel badly for the girl and when she told the teacher and when the teacher got on to him he cried and showed remorse.
Please tell me what you would do in this situation and how I should handle it. I need to know what to say to difficult child, the teachers, the counselor, and his psychiatrist, if need be. He is out of school today due to voting and this happened yesterday.