Oh well I tried !!

[sooooo tired]

I told my daughter that we would come to her house on Sunday and celebrate her birthday. First everything was cool, then I wake up in the morning to one of her rant texts about how my grandson dont need her and she is gonna leave him with his dad and on and on and on ! So I did not answer back and I am not going over for her birthday!! she can sit and wallow in her mood! I swear I am done trying to make her happy it doesnt work !!!

 

[DoneDad]

Good job not getting drawn in! Do something nice for yourself!

 

[BusynMember]

The only one who can make her happy is herself and with Borderline (BPD) it includes very intensive therapy. You meant well. The tantrum is on her, not you. Why not treat YOU to a nice day? You earned it.