starcloaked
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difficult child had a rough start to the year due to numerous procedural violations and general egregious errors on the part of the school system. We got their attention by having good documentation, and he was assigned a 1:1. There's one person, the inclusion specialist, who is really trying to make this work. Everyone else (princpal, classroom teacher, etc.) wants to get him the heck out of their school and into a self-contained behavior classroom (ALP). We're going to visit that room tomorrow morning, but my concerns are that a) it's really designed for older kids; there's one other kindergartner in the room now but it goes up to 5th grade, b) what if it's a warehouse, and c) it's at another school in the district, which means that he's going to be at a different school, but his twin sister will continue at our zoned school. If we ever decide to move her to put them together, she won't get transportation.
I've asked them to give it one more try in the home school. He had an aide who took the job while also going to school full time and doing theater and music, and he quit after a week simply because he was overcommitted. Given the level of work this person is doing (H is alone in a "quiet classroom" with him for more than half the day at this point), I think they should hire a replacement at a higher level. The aides get $9.85 an hour and don't have any higher ed requirements. This person is teaching (they keep saying the resource room teacher is supervising...only in theory, and her expertise is NOT in this area anyway). I want to push them to upgrade the position. What do I call it? Does it have to be a teacher? Is there a difference between a paraprofessional and an instructional para? I thought there was, but now I'm not so sure, since when I say that I want an aide who is qualified to provide instruction, I get a blank stare. I think I'm not saying the right words. Any ideas?
The fact that this aide left is pushing them to declare it a failure before they've given it a chance. I don't want to put my kid through a hundred transitions, but I also don't want my kid sent off to a special program when he has the capacity to be in an inclusive setting (with his sister and friends). It doesn't help that the teacher and principal are totally scared of him now and want him the heck out of there. I'm worried that trying to keep him in this school is going to result in them setting him up, and more heartbreak for him.
I'm so tired. I've already missed way too much work, and we may have to have dear spouse take a leave of absence from work to handle all the times they're sending him home (we've agreed to shortened days while they find another aide, simply because school is too stressful for him without an aide). I am really wrestling with whether to keep swimming upstream, or whether to just go with the behavioral class and finally have him in a place where he's not being treated like an ax-murderer on the loose (never mind that he's FIVE and 45 pounds fighting weight).
Sorry this turned into a bit of a vent. I know they're trying to wear us down with all these meetings and foot-dragging (they still haven't started the FBA & BIP I requested), and I'm starting to think it's working. Any advice on the next step up between para and SPED teacher will be helpful.
Thanks for listening. I won't be sorry to see September 2007 behind us!
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I've asked them to give it one more try in the home school. He had an aide who took the job while also going to school full time and doing theater and music, and he quit after a week simply because he was overcommitted. Given the level of work this person is doing (H is alone in a "quiet classroom" with him for more than half the day at this point), I think they should hire a replacement at a higher level. The aides get $9.85 an hour and don't have any higher ed requirements. This person is teaching (they keep saying the resource room teacher is supervising...only in theory, and her expertise is NOT in this area anyway). I want to push them to upgrade the position. What do I call it? Does it have to be a teacher? Is there a difference between a paraprofessional and an instructional para? I thought there was, but now I'm not so sure, since when I say that I want an aide who is qualified to provide instruction, I get a blank stare. I think I'm not saying the right words. Any ideas?
The fact that this aide left is pushing them to declare it a failure before they've given it a chance. I don't want to put my kid through a hundred transitions, but I also don't want my kid sent off to a special program when he has the capacity to be in an inclusive setting (with his sister and friends). It doesn't help that the teacher and principal are totally scared of him now and want him the heck out of there. I'm worried that trying to keep him in this school is going to result in them setting him up, and more heartbreak for him.
I'm so tired. I've already missed way too much work, and we may have to have dear spouse take a leave of absence from work to handle all the times they're sending him home (we've agreed to shortened days while they find another aide, simply because school is too stressful for him without an aide). I am really wrestling with whether to keep swimming upstream, or whether to just go with the behavioral class and finally have him in a place where he's not being treated like an ax-murderer on the loose (never mind that he's FIVE and 45 pounds fighting weight).
Sorry this turned into a bit of a vent. I know they're trying to wear us down with all these meetings and foot-dragging (they still haven't started the FBA & BIP I requested), and I'm starting to think it's working. Any advice on the next step up between para and SPED teacher will be helpful.
Thanks for listening. I won't be sorry to see September 2007 behind us!
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