Son threatened me emotionally and I"m so tired. Did I do the right thing?

[Suz]

And I've started telling him exactly how I feel about J. and about grandson. He didn't want to hear about it and said, "I'M the one who is hurting here." I interrupted him to say that I was too and that if he didn't want to hear it, he could use somebody else to bang off of.

This is a perfect example of why listening to relationship/marital woes NEVER seems to pay off. It's the old "I can complain about her but don't you dare say anything bad about her" syndrome.

ugh.

Lesson learned, eh?

Go give your hubby a big kiss.

Hugs,
Suz