donna723
Well-Known Member
I am so sorry all this is happening to you. I wish I had more to offer besides cyber hugs and a shoulder to lean on, but I don't. "The System" doesn't make much sense anymore and seems to do more harm than good. This is the reason I have put off becoming a foster parent after going through all the training, home studies, etc. I just don't know if I could deal with the frustration and heartache of dealing with "The System"!
Is there anything out of line on his "MySpace" page? Anything they could have taken offense to or could make something out of? Could you get his MySpace account deleted? The courts are really paying attention to this kind of thing now. I have a friend at work, a wonderful, loving, concerned mother who is going through a bitter divorce ... she just lost custody of her 12 year old daughter, mainly due to the girls' "MySpace" page! She claimed to be 14, posted pictures of herself that make her look much older, then gave her real (very unusual) name and the name of their very small hometown! The mother cancelled her MySpace account but the girl re-posted it from a friends house ... the mom didn't know. The judge blamed the mom and gave custody of the girl to the father ... who didn't really want custody of his daughter, he was more interested in hurting the mom. And the father who was so "concerned" - after over a month, the pictures are STILL on "MySpace"! He hasn't even bothered to cancel her account!
Sending lots of hugs... I hope things get better for you soon.
Is there anything out of line on his "MySpace" page? Anything they could have taken offense to or could make something out of? Could you get his MySpace account deleted? The courts are really paying attention to this kind of thing now. I have a friend at work, a wonderful, loving, concerned mother who is going through a bitter divorce ... she just lost custody of her 12 year old daughter, mainly due to the girls' "MySpace" page! She claimed to be 14, posted pictures of herself that make her look much older, then gave her real (very unusual) name and the name of their very small hometown! The mother cancelled her MySpace account but the girl re-posted it from a friends house ... the mom didn't know. The judge blamed the mom and gave custody of the girl to the father ... who didn't really want custody of his daughter, he was more interested in hurting the mom. And the father who was so "concerned" - after over a month, the pictures are STILL on "MySpace"! He hasn't even bothered to cancel her account!
Sending lots of hugs... I hope things get better for you soon.