My husband, son and I are scheduled to leave today to head to New Mexico to see our daughter. The plans were all set. Pick up son's girlfriend at the airport Thursday morning and head to my daughter's boyfriend's family for Thanksgiving. We are staying at my daughter's while my son and his girlfriend were to stay in a hotel. Well my son cannot get his stuff together in time to leave. We set a time of 6pm to leave because we have a 6 hour drive tonight. So we are going to leave without him. We have been down this road many times but always waited for him or helped him along. Not this time, we are done. So the flight will have to be cancelled and the hotel room too. Not sure what my son is going to tell his girlfriend or what he will do for Thanksgiving. His apartment is a pigsty and all he wants to do is get high. I am trying to accept that this is the right thing to do. We have enabled him enough.