witzend
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I thought you knew. I still have the same number, text or call me sometime.
Boy do I remember. I am surprised my son didn't tell me this.
Boy do I remember. I am surprised my son didn't tell me this.
He died from a tragic accident
It destroyed my parents
IB, many years ago as a young woman I went into therapy with a psychoanalyst, which lasted many years. Of all that time a few things stand out. One was his talking about parents who lose a child. (I was not a mother then. I do not know why we had the conversation or why I remember, this of all things. )They placed us in orphanage
That sounds like me. At least how I started out as a young woman. But I was like you, IB, I fought for myself. I became the best me I could be.Fatherless daughters grow up to be insecure, carry a sense of rejection, abandonment, lack self confidence and lack of control over the emotions.
This is tragic.but then she died too soon when I was 24 of breast cancer
We share something in common. I wish we did not.In his obituary, he never even mentioned that he had two daughters. That was hard to deal with- in the end, we just didn't matter to him.
Can you share your thought on "klmno"?I just realized what "klmno" probably meant.
How exactly did she pass? (I realize suicide, but?)
rebelson...Others who knew her well or fairly well (I did not know her well at all) seem to know what I was referring to and did not feel I was accurate. That it either did not mean what I thought or had no meaning. I thought the initials of her name "klmno" may have been an abbreviation of some kind for kill.me.now.
I thought it might have been a big clue how much she was hurting. Others, who knew her well didn't see any deep meaning in this. She didn't seem open to therapy from what I understand.
Very very sad.