difficult child calls me this morning on my cell (which I use for work too) and immediately swears at me and is hollering asking me what I told his x-girlfriend (mother of grandson). I had no idea what he was even talking about and finally he calmed down enough to holler that I told her that he was smoking dope. Well, duh, yep I told him that I told her that husband and I had caught him smoking dope in his room in June when he lived with us and that the womon he is living with now also was high when I met her. He proceeds to then threaten to beat me up (in not so polite language). I told him he needed to change his lifestyle and hung up.
I called husband and talked with him and told him that this was IT, I was ready to turn off his cell phone. He isn't going to make threats to me with a phone that I pay for. So...this afternoon I had a minute and ran over to the cell phone store and shut off his phone.
X-girlfriend calls me this afternoon and says that difficult child called her this am all upset that he couldn't see the baby where he lives. She told him no way and so this is what precipitated his verbal bashing of me. I tell you guys, I'm just ready to be so done with this kid.
X-girlfriend, husband, easy child and his wife and I are all on the same sheet of music and we just want what is best for the baby and her oldest child.
The end result is that difficult child lives with pond scum, has no job, a car with no gas, no wish to get a job, no nothing. And..you know what? I'm at peace with this. I want no more chaos in my life. If he has to be out of it, so be it.
husband and I talk lots about this but we know there is nothing we can do. We do love our son and always will. However, if he doesn't change his lifestyle, he is going to be the loser of all losers.
Thanks for listening...judi
I called husband and talked with him and told him that this was IT, I was ready to turn off his cell phone. He isn't going to make threats to me with a phone that I pay for. So...this afternoon I had a minute and ran over to the cell phone store and shut off his phone.
X-girlfriend calls me this afternoon and says that difficult child called her this am all upset that he couldn't see the baby where he lives. She told him no way and so this is what precipitated his verbal bashing of me. I tell you guys, I'm just ready to be so done with this kid.
X-girlfriend, husband, easy child and his wife and I are all on the same sheet of music and we just want what is best for the baby and her oldest child.
The end result is that difficult child lives with pond scum, has no job, a car with no gas, no wish to get a job, no nothing. And..you know what? I'm at peace with this. I want no more chaos in my life. If he has to be out of it, so be it.
husband and I talk lots about this but we know there is nothing we can do. We do love our son and always will. However, if he doesn't change his lifestyle, he is going to be the loser of all losers.
Thanks for listening...judi
