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Same story here. Except my 32 yrs is on probation for burgarly is on probation. He has 3 months to go . He has moved back home and it's been a roller coaster with us and his 23 yrs brother. We need strength and peace And we moms need to put our self first

Since last post, I haven't seen or heard from son until today. I so wanted like always wanted to wrap my arms around him and be mom. But I know how this story ends up and I'm tired. Also with covid I must put my safety first. I asked how can I help? He wanted to do laundry and visit and he...

I remember feeling so exhausted and tired of my sons actions to a point of my husband and I turned the cheek or denied seeing his drugging, manipulating acts. I would go to my room while my husband got lost in the TV shows. Then we would ask each other what are we going to do? After reading...

Thank you all for the kind words. It really helps to be reminded that I deserve my boundaries and my sanity. I have not heard from him since. I have put it in Gods hands.

My son had completed a three month inpatient treatment program. Boy was I proud of him. He came back a new man. He had goals he went to meetings. He is my beautiful son. So I let him come back home. The agreement was only until after the holidays a short three months. He went to meetings...

Thank everyone who took the time to share on my post searching for opinions. I was livid, worry, and at the same time desperately wanting to rescue. I called the facility and asked questions which non really could be answered due to he is of age. But I made them aware that I am not an option to...

Thank everyone who took the time to share on my post searching for opinions. I was livid, worry, and at the same time desperately wanting to rescue. I called the facility and asked questions which non really could be answered due to he is of age. But I made them aware that I am not an option to...

Just heard a voice mail from son stating how he get out on Thursday. His message kinda ticks me off! He said "I know you get off work at 5 so if you can be here at 8:30 to pick me up." Really, really, really. The sound of his voice is so sincere. Ugh! Why in the heck am I supposed to jump in the...

Very powerful posts. The words I read has hit home and has opened my eyes. It's crazy how I can feel strong and have my boundaries in place but at the hence of my son improving and setting goals to hear the same thing how's hes homeless and wanting help. I ponder if I should then I come here...

Thanks yall it could very may be manipulation. I think I'll wait and see what happens before I drive all that way. I'm going to research and see what after care is available.

I asked and he said that most people in there are court ordered and has a case manager. But he volunteered to go so he has no case manager. I told him to request one.

Update son has been in rehab for 45 days he is due to be out this Wednesday. I just received a call from him with him stating his fears and anxiety about being back in the real world. Remember he had lost everything he owns in his car. He told me he only has house shoes on and the clothes on...

A neighbor finally reported my son sleeping in his car in front of my house. Bound to happen. I recieved a call from son stating he has been in detox and went for a psychiatric evaluation that's over 100 miles away. I asked if its court ordered but he quickly changed the subject. Now hes in a 30 days...

I am in Oklahoma I see RV sites for 150 lot fee. Uncertain of free on land. That is interesting to investigate. His living can be cleanliness but then its chaos. It depends on his mood I guess. No I think there is a law against him living in a RV in my driveway and I don't think I would like...

I am debating the RV idea many times. I had him placed in a mental illness center for a psychiatric evaluation a few times. There is a diagnosis of bipolar, PTSD, borderline personality disorder but its uncertain if the diagnosis is drug induced. Each time he was released to a shelter. He refuses pysch medications...

I have posted how my son (30) relapse and I kicked him out. So he decided to live in his car parked in front of my house. Well one of my neighbors called the police yesterday. Why didn't I? I am uncertain i just ignored him sleeping in the car as i drove off or walked thru my door. I have no...

I appreciate yall for the kind words and the uplifting. I guess I am shutdown. Today the husband and I took a drive around the lake and didn't have a care in the world. We laughed and enjoyed the beautiful day. We decided we need more of these days.

I dont know what has came over me? I really dont care anymore what my son J is doing. Drugs or not; warm or cold; hungry or full; shelter or car. I feel terrible like a cold hearted B word! This weekend was really cold here and I know J has been sleeping in his car because he parks the car on...

Stay strong. You did great changing the locks and getting the cameras. I recently did the exact same. I remember I felt as if I was Superwoman guarding my land against invaders or something like that. I felt like dang it this is my home my sanctuary and my life! I'm nervous about today this is...

This is a good question and I'm wondering the same. As the time to be at my mother's home I'm wondering what about my trouble son. My middle son is embarrassed of him and doesn't want anything to do with him. Then my brother and sister adores him. I am like yall I want peaceful gathering with my...