I am new to this forum and stumbled upon this site today. I have been dealing with ODD with my daughter, now 23, since she was young. I think there are other undiagnosed mental health issues, but she refuses to get help. It’s been a long road. My husband and I have experienced abuse, violence, dishonesty, stealing, bullying and manipulation for too many years. We’ve provided her with countless opportunities to get her life going, but she refuses to work or go to college. Instead, she got pregnant at age 21. She’s been in 2 relationships since then, most recently with a woman and has moved out of state. Since she left, she and my grandson haven’t had a permanent home. They have been going from house to house with whoever will take them in. As of this week, they have run out of options and are now homeless. They were given a hotel for 2 nights by a Mission and I paid for the last 2 nights in a hotel. Now they are asking for money. I am encouraging them to find a social services office that can help them with resources. I can’t offer them a place to live because I have 2 young children and it’s not a healthy environment when my adult daughter is living in our home. I’m worried sick about my grandson. I’m just looking for any insight, experiences, advice, etc from anyone that’s been in a similar situation. Thank you.