So wife gives daughter a bloody nose then as I break things up wants to talk to the boys and all I want her to do is cool off and she won't and so I call 911 and the next thing I know they will report the felony to the DA and will either take her to jail right now or I have to show that I can keep the kids away from her. She takes the opportunity to leave and is now who knows where, cops told her to stay away a couple of days.
Although in her rage before cops were called she was saying she's filing for divorce (something she says and means every few months) I am willing to give it another try if she gets into treatment.
People, what do you think, any changes of a deal with the DA/judge to get charges dropped in exchange for her treatment of her BiPolar (BP)?
or mayb I should just go through divorce since now a good chance for me to get custody -- none of us feel safe with her as things are.
Me -- dad
Wife -- BiPolar (BP), untreated, hypomanic, rages
easy child 1 daughter 14 , snooty teen but allright
difficult child son, BiPolar (BP) 9, medications sorta help
easy child 2 son 5, perfect in all respects
Although in her rage before cops were called she was saying she's filing for divorce (something she says and means every few months) I am willing to give it another try if she gets into treatment.
People, what do you think, any changes of a deal with the DA/judge to get charges dropped in exchange for her treatment of her BiPolar (BP)?
or mayb I should just go through divorce since now a good chance for me to get custody -- none of us feel safe with her as things are.
Me -- dad
Wife -- BiPolar (BP), untreated, hypomanic, rages
easy child 1 daughter 14 , snooty teen but allright
difficult child son, BiPolar (BP) 9, medications sorta help
easy child 2 son 5, perfect in all respects