My 21 year old daughter is homeless. I am new to this site, please forgive any errors while I learn.. She is not allowed in my house or on my property anymore due to a fight with my husband and drug issues. She lies to me and only tells me half of what is going on. She mostly only calls or texts when it's a crisis. After dealing with this for months I find myself living in a constant state of fear and anxiety. Every time the phone rings or my text dings I immediately start shaking. It's gotten so bad that I don't know what to do anymore. I have not completely stopped helping her with food and gas like everyone has told me to do. She has a 'boyfriend' that kicks her out all the time and she sleeps in her car and waits for him to let her stay the night and they have had violent fights. When she got her tax money back she spent it all on him and I think crack. Then she was clean a few weeks and had a job and when she got her first paycheck she did the same thing. She's been clean for several weeks again and got another job and just got paid. I'm scared she will do it again. She also has a huge gash on her arm that she won't show me and only told me she had a "moment" and doesn't want to talk about it. I'm assuming she did it herself but she lies so much I don't know ever what words are true anymore. There's more crazy stories I could tell if you're interested. Does anyone have any advice on dealing with the anxiety and stress of living in constant fear of the next crisis. I am desperate. I am afraid.