With the deadline of September 30th looming. My anxiety is super high. I feel nervous and scared. My parents are not talking to me nor have I reached out to them. I believe they are angry that I not helping my daughter they way they want me to. I am helping, just not their way. I purchased a very nice used car seat for the baby and have been letting her stay at my house since like April. Well at first it was only during the day so you can watch Mar, now it's like stay every night. Before I found out she was pregnant I told her she has until the end of September to figure out her living situation. She works part time, like twice a week, at this pizza place. Her options are go live with that guy at his house, its an on and off again kinda relationship or go stay with my parents 4 hours away or by some miracle she gets her own place. My other two kids have very busy schedules and I think I am going to have to impose a 3 day notice on baby sitting and limit it to only twice a week. I have things I want to do also and sometimes its nothing at all. When my daughter is not at our house the atmosphere is so different, then when she gets there everyone retreats to their rooms, because her space and bed is the couch. I feel like she expects me to feel sorry for her and I just can't this time. She is so draining and having to listen to talk it draining because that's all it is, is TALK. She seems sensible, but when it comes time to actually do these things, it's opposite or nothing at all. We love our grand daughter so much and will miss not seeing her as often, I know my son is going to really miss her. She's had all these years to do what she needs to do and didn't do anything and has nothing to show for it. I am just so scared, especially for my grand daughter.