My son is now in rehab, good news is his father will take him once he gets out , I will give him sole custody , problem is my son thinks he is coming to live with me after rehab. I dont know if I should wait till after rehab to tell him he cant.I mean I cant tell him, Im afraid to have him here. Do I be truthful with him? What do I say? What reason will I give him without him feeling rejected.Like I said in my other preivoud posts, he can be loving & caring but he also has a very dark side that I am very scared of.