my3girls64
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omg.... i am in so much need of advice/help... our 15 year old daughter is getting worse by the day.. been through 4 pyschologists... diagnosed at age 5 with ADHD and medicated and it did nothing... at age 8 went to another doctor and they said she isn't ADHD, only that she is ODD... put us on wait list for a doctor in our insurance program... that took over a year... 5 years later... got dumped by her core group of friends... went into a depression, started high school, got kicked out for possession alcohol (however we believe she hasnt been drinking since then). took her to see a counselor for 6 weeks... she hated him and fought and swore every week at him.... finally my therapist (yes, my therapist, said it's time to get her fully evaluated for bipolar)... i have gone to see a therapist due to the stress she has put on our marriage and my life...
just don't know what to do... we have appointment later this month for her evaluation but she is cunning... she will put on an act and pretend like it's all me and her father that she acts the way she does... how do we get her on film so that we have something to show the doctor as to the "real" behavior she displays daily.. swearing, no respect, doesnt keep up with school work, thnks she can do anything she wants and doesnt care about consequences.
someone out there.. please help us..
just don't know what to do... we have appointment later this month for her evaluation but she is cunning... she will put on an act and pretend like it's all me and her father that she acts the way she does... how do we get her on film so that we have something to show the doctor as to the "real" behavior she displays daily.. swearing, no respect, doesnt keep up with school work, thnks she can do anything she wants and doesnt care about consequences.
someone out there.. please help us..