I am so glad I found this post. for the last Five years I have been dealing with a very troubled daughter it started when she was 14 years old. I have been beating myself up wondering what did I do wrong. I felt bad for kicking her out of my house. However, I am sick of the lies, stealing, her manipulating my family, and oh her constant yelling at us and threats. I am finished with her. I don't want her in my life or my young son's life. My oldest daughter doesn't even claim to have a sister, because of all the hostility. I tried getting her help but the counselor had to discharge her because they weren't getting anywhere and the counselor told me that she needed the help but she didn't want to change. Recent events have brought me to a new place that I want to disown this child. After reading all the posts I am glad to know I am not alone and that this is not a bad decision. I am glad that I found this site. Just wish I had looked sooner.