this guy is full of it, from what I have seen.
Janet, I think our difficult child's get the easy kids, at least at first, because that is what they can handle. Esp our difficult child boys. My cousin (difficult child to the nth degree, used to think it was fun to hurt himself on purpose doing some dumb macho thing and then tell the hospital staff that my aunt did it to him!!! She SOOO didn't, she used to cry if she spanked us and her spankings didn't hurt or even leave red marks!!) My cousin has 2 of the best behaved daughter's in the world. Sweet, protective of each other, responsible, and just great kids. And good little me, well, I have 3 kids with a wide variety of problems!
I just laugh at these things. There was one in a just for kids magazine about "Do the Goldfish" some figure 8 exercise that got kids out of ADHD and other behaviors. Insert maniacal laughter here!!
Susie