TYLERFAN
New Member
Hi Family:
I haven't been here in a looong time. I wanted to come by here so many times. Life is chaotic, but good.
Baby J is almost 2 1/2 and is the most wonderful thing that has happened to husband and I. husband is such a great dadBaby J is smart and happy and well adjusted. We take him everywhere and his disposition is amazing!
I finally got a job that I loveI work with disabled kids and it is fascinating. I finally got medical insurance and we have plenty of time off as it is a school.
difficult child on the other hand is a disaster. She was living 9 hours from us for 3 months. Got herself an apartment and a job. She gave it all up and came back here as she "didn't like it there" and now is homeless living in Grandmonsters trailer in her driveway. (She is sanctioned from getting welfare till November)
And... drum roll...........She is Pregnant Again!!!!She is keeping the baby. She is not looking for work and has not complied with one thing she legally agreed to do. husband and I are at the point where we are going to suspend all contact with her. husband, Bless his heart, has become a father to Baby J, beyond compare!!
I want to tell you that this is killing me, I was fine till this new pregnancy. Now, I am on the precipice of deciding I will not be in the new baby's life, it will just be too hard. I won't be able to take this child, if difficult child screws up and we all know what the chances of that are!
I will be here reading and trying to catch up. I miss you all. I have been so busy and crazy between work and family and household chores........Everytime I wanted to come here, something took my attention away. I think about you guys every day.
I still need to be here. There was a quiet period this first year of my marraige and it was wonderful.
Blessings to all,
Melissa
I haven't been here in a looong time. I wanted to come by here so many times. Life is chaotic, but good.
Baby J is almost 2 1/2 and is the most wonderful thing that has happened to husband and I. husband is such a great dadBaby J is smart and happy and well adjusted. We take him everywhere and his disposition is amazing!
I finally got a job that I loveI work with disabled kids and it is fascinating. I finally got medical insurance and we have plenty of time off as it is a school.
difficult child on the other hand is a disaster. She was living 9 hours from us for 3 months. Got herself an apartment and a job. She gave it all up and came back here as she "didn't like it there" and now is homeless living in Grandmonsters trailer in her driveway. (She is sanctioned from getting welfare till November)
And... drum roll...........She is Pregnant Again!!!!She is keeping the baby. She is not looking for work and has not complied with one thing she legally agreed to do. husband and I are at the point where we are going to suspend all contact with her. husband, Bless his heart, has become a father to Baby J, beyond compare!!
I want to tell you that this is killing me, I was fine till this new pregnancy. Now, I am on the precipice of deciding I will not be in the new baby's life, it will just be too hard. I won't be able to take this child, if difficult child screws up and we all know what the chances of that are!
I will be here reading and trying to catch up. I miss you all. I have been so busy and crazy between work and family and household chores........Everytime I wanted to come here, something took my attention away. I think about you guys every day.
I still need to be here. There was a quiet period this first year of my marraige and it was wonderful.
Blessings to all,
Melissa