I texted him and he was so abusive. He is so full of anger!!
The court wants him under my supervision, he will not come home and frankly, I don't want him back (I can't take any more) unless he's ready to take life seriously, go for treatment, alcohol and drugs (cocaine), anger management and whatever else he may need to get straight.
He'll be 18 next month and HE thinks that he can stop his bad habits and straighten up by then. Thing is, he's hanging with a crowd that has no standards and require very little of him. I believe he's selling drugs too.
We were very close or I thought we were, now he calls me a 'Sour old grinch', he's told me to eff off, he tells me to get a life and I'm actually fearful of him.
He's always been a challenge in school. Even the day care would call often and threaten that he may have to leave not for rough behaviour but simply an unwillingness to follow the program. I've seen myself sit next to him in a classroom for a week just to make sure did his work. I'm a self employed single mom, I couldn't afford to take too much time off for this foolishness.
My story here is probably coming off really jumbled but there are so many incidents that my head is FULL to the brim.
He's stolen from me, spit on my house as he stormed out, punched holes in the siding, come home so many times drunk, been arrested for underage drinking, broken into a building, trespassed, recently been arrested for smashing windows on a rampage with a "friend", he didn't actually do the damage but he was there, came and went as he pleased UNTIL, my fiancée moved in and at first got along fine but after being verbally abusive to me, was informed that that was not going to fly here, he HATES him. My faience is a contractor, he had planned to get my son some work this summer but it won't happen now.
He went out and got a tattoo on his forehead after I begged him not to. Now he uses it as an excuse to not work. He says 'who's going to hire me with a tattoo on my face"
I have to stop typing for tonight. Thank you so much for this.
There's so much I need to share. I'm exhausted.
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