DDD
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easy child/difficult child as many of you know has been in a "relationship" for over a year which is a first. His SO is a difficult child who is very possessive. She has three children who are being raised by her parents...sigh. Well her youngest child is a boy who has really "attached" to easy child/difficult child. Her son is a nice little boy with a biodad who is major bad news. Her two older kids are teenagers.
SO..."supposedly" (sorry, I am not a big fan of SO's) the boy has asked her if "he can call easy child/difficult child Daddy?" easy child/difficult child shared that with me today and said "Mama, I told her that I didn't think that was a good idea...what do you think?" I agreed. Evidently easy child/difficult child is being pressured in a major way to become engaged to SO and he told me he said "I do not plan to get married to you or anyone."
Anyway I was wondering if any of you guys ever had a "special" name for a male father figure. All three children live with the grandparents and have done so for at least five years. Sigh. I'm thinking there may be some term of "possession" or "endearment" that this child could use that indicates the world that he and easy child/difficult child are "tight". I just can't think what to heck it could be. Any ideas? DDD
SO..."supposedly" (sorry, I am not a big fan of SO's) the boy has asked her if "he can call easy child/difficult child Daddy?" easy child/difficult child shared that with me today and said "Mama, I told her that I didn't think that was a good idea...what do you think?" I agreed. Evidently easy child/difficult child is being pressured in a major way to become engaged to SO and he told me he said "I do not plan to get married to you or anyone."
Anyway I was wondering if any of you guys ever had a "special" name for a male father figure. All three children live with the grandparents and have done so for at least five years. Sigh. I'm thinking there may be some term of "possession" or "endearment" that this child could use that indicates the world that he and easy child/difficult child are "tight". I just can't think what to heck it could be. Any ideas? DDD