I have been doing very well since I last posted on here. Things still aren't resolved with my Difficult Child. I havent been in touch with her going on almost 3 years now. It bothers me but I am so much happier not having to deal with her abuse. I have been engaged to a wonderful man for two years now. The problem I have now concerns my 7 year old grandson. When I was by myself I would pick him up and let him spend the weekend with me. Now that I am getting to go places and do things that I have never gotten to do,I cant see him as much. Well his dad gets really angry with me because I dont have him as much so he gets revengeful and wont answer my messages when I DO want to get him. It hurts me. I feel at 65 I have every right to enjoy traveling and having fun with my fiance. I tried to call yesterday to wish him a happy birthday and wanted to take him saturday to celebrate. Of course daddy is giving me the cold shoulder and wont return my calls. I havent seen my grandson for 6 weeks and his dad thinks that I am being a bad grandma. Im sure he tells my grandson stupid things like mama doesnt want to see you or doesnt have any time for you...cuzz thats how he is. I hate to lose contact with my grandson because he is the only one of my Difficult Child kids that I keep in contact with. I just have torn emotions.