Yep got that text message yesterday as I was leaving my doctor's office. I told her to call me. She was crying and said she has never been so depressed and wants to come home yadda yadda. I calmly told her that coming home wasn't going to fix anything and that she was unwilling to do what she needed to do to change. She swore she would go back to IOP and meetings and therapy. I reminded her that we have no more money for IOP or therapy and all the therapy in the world wasn't going to help her until she wanted it badly enough. She sobbed that she didn't want to live like this anymore and I asked her what happened to her fb post about being the best day of her life and she had her future all mapped out. She said she didn't want anyone to know she was depressed because it's embarrassing. I told her depression is not embarrassing, prancing around fb like she was with disgusting pictures and vulgar language was embarrassing.
Then she asked if I could drive her to her 7 am class today. I told her I would do that and bring her back to potheads house. She asked if she could come today and talk to me and husband and I told her I would let her know if husband was going to be in town. I picked her up for class, she looked and smelled horrible, lots of smoke and either pot smell or pipe smell. I know everyone in that house smokes so she is covered with it. As I was driving her back she asked if I would stop at home and let her get some energy drinks (I hate those things but everyone in AA drinks them). I told her no I was not providing refreshments for potheads house. Then I drove her to potheads house and suggested she take a shower and clean herself up.
So I'm waiting to hear if husband has to go out of town today before telling her whether she can come and talk to us.
Nancy
Then she asked if I could drive her to her 7 am class today. I told her I would do that and bring her back to potheads house. She asked if she could come today and talk to me and husband and I told her I would let her know if husband was going to be in town. I picked her up for class, she looked and smelled horrible, lots of smoke and either pot smell or pipe smell. I know everyone in that house smokes so she is covered with it. As I was driving her back she asked if I would stop at home and let her get some energy drinks (I hate those things but everyone in AA drinks them). I told her no I was not providing refreshments for potheads house. Then I drove her to potheads house and suggested she take a shower and clean herself up.
So I'm waiting to hear if husband has to go out of town today before telling her whether she can come and talk to us.
Nancy