As many of you may know, I had my son move out this past weekend. I have a concern that is causing me serious anxiety and any input will be appreciated! My son goes to court in April for a felony charge for selling drugs. Believe it or not, with so much overcrowding in the jail system and the fact that my son "looks" like a nice kid, his father and I both believe he will just get probation for x amount of time. Maybe at the most house arrest but we both believe it will just be probation. He has been in trouble a few times in the past, has a few misdemeanors on his record etc but always always gets a slap on the wrist, which doesn't teach him anything. My son's address is listed here at my house even though I think he is living with friends and his drivers license address is also listed here at my house even though I told him he needs to change it. He is irresponsible and won't. I don't want him getting probation and the courts thinking he will live with me bc his address is legally here. They can't make me keep my son here for probation can they? I can not subject the rest of my family to probation again where probation officers just show up at my house etc. After all, we didn't do anything wrong and I will not live that way.