PatriotsGirl
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I took difficult child to her house arrest PO. I have to sit in the truck with Connor because children are not allowed in there. Out comes difficult child with a police officer towards the truck and I am worried asking myself wth?? I had just watched someone else go to jail directly from the probation office. So her and the officer come over and she is showing him the baby. He turned to me and told me he was the one responsible for her being on probation. I gave him a funny look and he explained that he was the one that arrested her! So I gave him a high five.
He was grinning ear to ear looking at difficult child. He told me that he didn't even recognize her in the office - she had to tell him who she was and then he was floored. He was telling her how proud he was of her and that he knew she could turn it around. She was grinning, he was grinning and I was grinning...lol. She told him it was the best thing that could have happened.
We had a good coversation. I found out some things. Like the night she got arrested she was covered in bruises all over her face. She said her and M were beating the **** out of each other. What man fights back with a woman??? The man is in his thirties - I don't give a hoot how worked up difficult child is, you WALK AWAY. The POS is much safer in prison. And as difficult child was sitting in the police car, up pulls the other girlfriend that he got pregnant - she gets out of the car, M and her kiss and walk into the motel room together. The police were trying to get difficult child to give them info on him - they said they would let her go if she gave them something. She wouldn't and so she went to jail and here we are...
On another note - difficult child turned 20 yesterday. She kept looking at Connor and telling him he was the BEST birthday gift she could have ever asked for. Things are still very, very good here. <3
He was grinning ear to ear looking at difficult child. He told me that he didn't even recognize her in the office - she had to tell him who she was and then he was floored. He was telling her how proud he was of her and that he knew she could turn it around. She was grinning, he was grinning and I was grinning...lol. She told him it was the best thing that could have happened.
We had a good coversation. I found out some things. Like the night she got arrested she was covered in bruises all over her face. She said her and M were beating the **** out of each other. What man fights back with a woman??? The man is in his thirties - I don't give a hoot how worked up difficult child is, you WALK AWAY. The POS is much safer in prison. And as difficult child was sitting in the police car, up pulls the other girlfriend that he got pregnant - she gets out of the car, M and her kiss and walk into the motel room together. The police were trying to get difficult child to give them info on him - they said they would let her go if she gave them something. She wouldn't and so she went to jail and here we are...
On another note - difficult child turned 20 yesterday. She kept looking at Connor and telling him he was the BEST birthday gift she could have ever asked for. Things are still very, very good here. <3