Oh Leafy, I am so very sorry. The pain of it all is so deep and profound, so devastating......your post brought tears to my eyes, of empathy, remembering that feeling in my heart, in my gut...the powerlessness of it all. The theft, the grandkids....geez, sometimes it is so hard to pull up any strength from the root of us to help us go on.
You are a wise and kind soul being pushed to your limit....I know you already know all of the things to do, you've been at this a long time. I just wanted you to know I am reading along and sending you much love.....many hugs.....a whole bunch of compassion and prayers for your strength and acceptance. Hang in there Leafy, you know it'll shift inside you and you will find your way through.......