The FB page in question belongs to eldest cousin's spouse. My 'neutral' cousin, who is the only one I'd reach out to, doesn't seem to be on social media anymore. I cannot find any evidence of what they are doing now. I do know life has not been kind to them, which is a shame because this cousin is a good person, and the only person on this particular side of the family I'd want to reconnect with as my own family is small.
My mother doesn't intend to visit aunt. I asked mother if she would be upset if aunt died without any further words between them and my mother said no. I have no desire to visit aunt.
If I do manage to find neutral cousin I will post an update.
That type of thing should come from our own personal thoughts , needs, wants, morals and motivations.
Apologies if that confuses the issue.
There just doesn’t seem to be any clear cut rules or right or wrong answers.
Thank you. My hub had no episodes since but it was a very stressful time for him too. The strange thing is, my husband is skeptical of the afterlife but the day he came home from the hospital he woke me and told me a person was in the house and had woken him up. Some prescence had been standing behind him. He swears to it to this day and it has made him think about the afterlife. I smiled and told my dad I loved him too. Im sure it was him. I often feel him, even a year later.
Wish, your heart is big.
I hope he can go into hospice and leave gently with no more pain.
Wish. I wish I could take your pain away.