I've been googling "emotional abuse" and the only thing that he does is the "I'm stupid" or "I can't do anything right" stuff which is a DIRECT result from the previous school telling him if he can't behave he's never going to accomplish anything in life. I was the one that brought this up in his ARD to make sure he's getting lots of positive reenforcment from other adults. I'm his mom, I tell him he's perfect all the time. He just doesn't believe me. He needs to hear it from others as well.