DDD I appreciate any and all insight and am trying to decipher what is best for me in this situation. I am new at this dating thing. I did not choose the breakup of the one week duration we had. perhaps he should not have told his daughters we took a break until he was sure. that was 6 wks ago. he said the only reason I am not included is that the older girl has asked that they get time without partners of parents. even her lil sister's live in boyfriend is excluded I understand. I wish this girl would find a boyfriend fast. she is too controlling. she has had men but scares them off with her bossiness. she broke up with her college boyfriend of 7 yrs on valentine's day last year. this after his family paid for a mediterranean cruise with his family/she cancelled just two weeks before costing them her trip.
last October when the older girl cut me out of the Colorado trip we had been living together a long time already with no talk of break up. this girl asked me to email her dates so she could pick when we were to go, she asked me 6 months in advance, I took off work based on that, she then told her dad to go without me on a week she knew dang well I was NOT able to go, since she used my info on the dates. so that is no excuse. and to his stupidity...he didnt tell me about it til a week before and only after I kept saying we needed to get our tix bought. It still angers me to think of it all. you would think that even would have broken us up but he promised to let the girls know we are a couple...if they didnt notice. I also know this is all new to them so a precedent must be set.
the older girl told their mom they want her to visit without her partner as well. (this guy has been living with the mom for 4 yrs about in the house they purchased together.) he is wealthy, has spent a ton on the girls including a trip to Calif for two weeks last spring, at Christmas he took them on a very expensive date with their mom to the nutcracker and dinner before drinks after etc. he is very good to them and they have no reason to exclude him either.
it is not that they do not like us, it is that the older girl cannot share her parents. period.
I have movies too and have only shown boyfriend once briefly so he could see my son who died---only after he asked to see him. I would never bore him with history he is not part of. his sister makes us bring out the crate of movies each time she comes and we watch them time and again. they watch the same ones over and over. then they get out board games and fight over them like school kids. the older girl is so competitive she gets angry at playing Yahtzee. she is the YAHTZEE NAZI. she tells everyone what they should roll for etc. we play scrabble and she gets behind her sister and hmms and shakes her head no if the sister picks up the wrong letter..she whispers in her ear what she should do each turn. AAAAAAAAHHHHH it is crazy. I dont know. I think my friends who know both boyfriend and I think he should have included me or at least told me or asked me because it affects me too. one gal who has known us all along told me to go find a new guy while he is gone.
meanwhile I am going out with my widowed neighbor...my age..to the Tiki Room tonight (an big outside adult sandbox bar/restaurant. )
pray for my knight in shining armour to ride up on his horse and take me away. now to go comb my flowing locks...lol
last October when the older girl cut me out of the Colorado trip we had been living together a long time already with no talk of break up. this girl asked me to email her dates so she could pick when we were to go, she asked me 6 months in advance, I took off work based on that, she then told her dad to go without me on a week she knew dang well I was NOT able to go, since she used my info on the dates. so that is no excuse. and to his stupidity...he didnt tell me about it til a week before and only after I kept saying we needed to get our tix bought. It still angers me to think of it all. you would think that even would have broken us up but he promised to let the girls know we are a couple...if they didnt notice. I also know this is all new to them so a precedent must be set.
the older girl told their mom they want her to visit without her partner as well. (this guy has been living with the mom for 4 yrs about in the house they purchased together.) he is wealthy, has spent a ton on the girls including a trip to Calif for two weeks last spring, at Christmas he took them on a very expensive date with their mom to the nutcracker and dinner before drinks after etc. he is very good to them and they have no reason to exclude him either.
it is not that they do not like us, it is that the older girl cannot share her parents. period.
I have movies too and have only shown boyfriend once briefly so he could see my son who died---only after he asked to see him. I would never bore him with history he is not part of. his sister makes us bring out the crate of movies each time she comes and we watch them time and again. they watch the same ones over and over. then they get out board games and fight over them like school kids. the older girl is so competitive she gets angry at playing Yahtzee. she is the YAHTZEE NAZI. she tells everyone what they should roll for etc. we play scrabble and she gets behind her sister and hmms and shakes her head no if the sister picks up the wrong letter..she whispers in her ear what she should do each turn. AAAAAAAAHHHHH it is crazy. I dont know. I think my friends who know both boyfriend and I think he should have included me or at least told me or asked me because it affects me too. one gal who has known us all along told me to go find a new guy while he is gone.
meanwhile I am going out with my widowed neighbor...my age..to the Tiki Room tonight (an big outside adult sandbox bar/restaurant. )
pray for my knight in shining armour to ride up on his horse and take me away. now to go comb my flowing locks...lol
had on tight short shorts. her face was wrinkly and long coal black dyed hair. I do think the men were oogling her legs and high heeled sandals as she tried to walk thru the sand. my neighbor and I laughed.
