Susie,
I can relate. I get the idea of not wanting to give them gifts since they don't believe but I haven't been able to do that yet. My easy child has decided she doesn't believe there is a God and gets so ANGRY that I make her go to church and classes and very rude about it. I told her at 18 it was her choice before then not. I guess the difference is she doesn't try to insult us or other religions and is only obnoxious about me having her go to church.
I can relate. I get the idea of not wanting to give them gifts since they don't believe but I haven't been able to do that yet. My easy child has decided she doesn't believe there is a God and gets so ANGRY that I make her go to church and classes and very rude about it. I told her at 18 it was her choice before then not. I guess the difference is she doesn't try to insult us or other religions and is only obnoxious about me having her go to church.